This must be the news in all the news papers tomorrow. What a tragedy. Singer Chitra’s 8 years old little girl losing her life in a swimming pool. I don’t know how careful we can be when it comes to our kids, even keeping them inside our eyes 24/7 doesn’t seem to help sometimes. I know some might say when the time of death comes nobody can stop it. But sometimes we feel like we could have been a little more careful, a little more paranoid to avoid some tragedies.. .I don’t know. I don’t know if the poor mother will ever come out of this shock. Will she be able to live another day, considering the fact that she had this baby after waiting for a long time. She is a very emotional and sensitive human being, from what I have heard and read. How will she ever survive this personal tragedy??
I remember sometime back, going to see my doctor with a lot of uncertainty when I was first pregnant with my son. For the first 3 months I was either in the hospital getting IV fluid or at home cursing every second of my life because of the almost unstoppable vomiting. I still remember the doctor telling us- ‘you shouldn’t expect anything from kids and mango buds/flowers, because one second they might be here in front of your eyes and but the next second they may not be here at all. So when you have them, when you are blessed with them for the time being, enjoy the time fully and be thankful’.
At that time I never understood the meaning fully as I was not in a mood mentally or physically to listen to philosophy. But now I realize that and think about what he said often… and often feel helpless too.
I hope and wish she would get all the help and support from everything she believes in and everybody around her to pass one day and then the day after ….
My heart goes out for this poor mother..
I remember sometime back, going to see my doctor with a lot of uncertainty when I was first pregnant with my son. For the first 3 months I was either in the hospital getting IV fluid or at home cursing every second of my life because of the almost unstoppable vomiting. I still remember the doctor telling us- ‘you shouldn’t expect anything from kids and mango buds/flowers, because one second they might be here in front of your eyes and but the next second they may not be here at all. So when you have them, when you are blessed with them for the time being, enjoy the time fully and be thankful’.
At that time I never understood the meaning fully as I was not in a mood mentally or physically to listen to philosophy. But now I realize that and think about what he said often… and often feel helpless too.
I hope and wish she would get all the help and support from everything she believes in and everybody around her to pass one day and then the day after ….
My heart goes out for this poor mother..
6 comments:
It is indeed a shocking news! I have been at the receiving end of such a tragic news, when my wife was pregnant for the first time! We lost our baby at 3 months.
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I share your sorrow vishal.I am still depressed... and i feel a little more care would have saved that child.. may be I am wrong. The pics of that child is breaking my heart, thinking about the struggle that baby might have gone through is crushing me...
ex,good to see u.
Such a wonderful lady and so God fearing. I don't know why bad things happen to good people.
I couldnt hold my ears when I saw that news.I can easily understand the grief.There is nothing like losing a child.The wounds never heal.
I agree with you totally.
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